Tuesday, December 25, 2007

Christmas!!! 2007

Christmas 2007


What a wonderful day! Olivia woke up at her usual time, around 7. We hurried her into the kitchen for a delicious (and typical) breakfast of yogurt and hot cereal. Then into the living room to play with some of the unwrapped presents. First Grammy and Grampy arrived and a few minutes later Aunt Michele and cousin Travis arrived and the opening of gifts began in full force. Olivia did great with tearing the paper, but Mama did help quite a bit to keep things moving. The pictures attest to some of the favorite toys!

After all of the gifts were unwrapped - and some played with, Mama and Daddy made eggs benedict and hash browns for breakfast. Grammy and Grampy slipped off to church while the rest of us hung out and played with all of the new toys. Travis and Michele hung out until it was time for Olivia to eat some lunch and head to bed for a nap. It was wonderful to just hang out, relax and enjoy their company.

Baby, Mama and Daddy took much needed naps, then off to Grandma Gayla and Grandpa Roy's. We had a wonderful Honey Baked ham, lots of delicious salad's and wonderful desserts. And, MORE PRESENTS! After the gifts were opened and the mess cleaned up, Rob hooked up the Wii and we all played for a while. What fun!!!

Monday, December 24, 2007

Christmas Eve at Dad and Jeri's

Christmas Eve 2007


After the aforementioned trip to the Dr., medicine and a nap, we headed to my dad's house for a wonderful Christmas celebration. The kids played, the adults enjoyed all of the yummy food, everyone opened presents and had a wonderful time.

Make sure to check out the great picture in the album of Christy and Olivia!

Christmas is Coming

....and Olivia has an ear infection. Saturday and Sunday she had been having a little bit of fever, progressively getting higher during the day then going away at night. Since she is getting about 6 teeth, we were hoping it was just teething. Yesterday she did not nap well, then did not sleep well last night. That was the last straw for me, and off to the Dr. (woo hoo that he was in the office today!!) with Daddy today while Mama worked. She has certainly been fussier and more clingy the last few days, and along with the teething, we have had a nearly constant runny nose. Pretty much nothing going right except getting new toys!

Just one quick shout out to Aunt Bobbie and Uncle Shane! Great fun and fellowship, fun presents and the absolute best steak I have ever had. Wow, it was soooooooo amazing. Thanks guys!

Saturday, December 22, 2007

Dunard Family Christmas 2007

Dunard Christmas 2007


Click on the picture to go to the entire album of pictures. Lots and lots of pictures accompany the first of the Christmas celebrations for Olivia this year. Although, we had a wonderful dinner last night at Grammy and Grampy's with Teresa and Luke as the official start of the celebrations.

The cover picture is the one that Olivia should be in, but we opted her out of it because she is not feeling well and was sleeping at the time. It just wasn't worth waking her up for as there will be many to come!

For those who are interested in the event, Michael's dad has two brothers, Bill and Bob. This event is the annual gathering of those three families, with food, fun and a gift exchange. Always a good time, previously held in a family members home, but as the family has grown, a bigger space has become necessary.

Saturday, December 15, 2007

The Ice Storm and Our First Real Snow





The ice is long gone, but the snow is here! We bundled Olivia up and took her outside. She, thus far, is not so fond of snow. She just stood there, not being used to the cold or the shoes she had on. She also did NOT like the snowflakes hitting her in the face. She was much happier when we went back inside the house to play.

Monday, December 10, 2007

23 Hours

....without power. Yep - church was canceled yesterday. I left to go grocery shopping around 9. I had to go to Wentzville because Wal-Mart and Kroger (actually all of 47 in town) had no power. When I got home, the power was out. Michael just stopped by the office - their words of advice "pack and stay with relatives".

We spent last night with Michael's parents. I can't imagine how cold the house is now. When we got some clothes last night around 7, it was 62 degrees in the house. If it does not come back on today, the cats will need a home tonight.

Wednesday, December 5, 2007

Christmas Pictures Preview

Tuesday, December 4, 2007

Just A Couple Pictures



Added a couple pictures from today and yesterday. She is loving playing IN her toy basket!
There are pictures of Lily and Olivia on Lily's blog, link to the right!

Sunday, November 25, 2007

Turkey?

Olivia decided that the roasting pan would be fun - seems she was right!

Posted by Picasa

Friday, November 23, 2007

Thankful, the day after Thanksgiving





When it was all said and done last night, I was just too tired to get on line and post my thoughts. We had a great day, great food and a wonderful family gathering. Mom, Roy, Julie, Rob, Tricia, Ashley, Marilu, Lee, Jordon, Jonah and James joined Michael, Olivia and I. We shared the cooking and were witness to a historic event: MARILU’S FIRST EVER HOMEMADE PIE. For those of you not familiar, Marilu is Michael’s youngest sister. How young, you ask, this being her first pie? 43. Yes that’s right, 43! We are all very proud of her, especially my sister, Julie who was thrilled to know that, at 38, she still has a few years before she has to make her first pie! Both of them are the youngest sibling in the family, I wonder if there is something to that???

Olivia had a great, but painful day. Painful in that, with all the goings on, she had so much to do and look at that she was not terribly careful about where she was going. She fell, hard, several times, most often, it seemed, face first. She now has a pretty icky scratch above and below her right eye. She had fun playing with her cousins, and ate turkey, mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes, stuffing, green beans and pumpkin pie.

And speaking of Olivia and being thankful, to steal from a friend’s blog – I am so thankful to God for placing Olivia in our hands and hearts almost four months ago. Michael and I had been looking at the clock and figuring the hours until Olivia the whole time we were in Hong Kong. On Sunday morning, we met up with the group at the Hong Kong airport at 7:15 am for our flight to Fuzhou, Fujian. Looking back now, I can hardly remember anything at all about that flight. I remember, after getting our luggage, we waited as our driver (I so need to find out his name) loaded the bags and all 11 of us (soon to be 14) into the little bus/van sort of thing. There were bags everywhere, and we all filled in between. The drive to the hotel seemed long, but filled with wonderment. We were in Olivia’s home land finally. There was what looked like so much unfinished construction. We checked into the lovely Lakeside (literally) Hotel. I believe that after getting briefly settled in, we all met back up with Mandy and Echo for about a 6 block walk to a market. I think at some point, Michael and I had lunch at the hotel restaurant. Then we sat in the room and waited. Since we did not have to go anywhere, we did not have to worry so much about a diaper bag, but we took one anyway. We met in the lobby at 3:30 then went to the second floor to meet our little girls. Zoie was there and Candi met her right away. Lily came next. We waited a bit longer for Olivia, but soon she was carried in the door by her nanny. The nanny took her over to have her picture taken, then we sat down for the “family picture”. I looked through the pictures and found one from those first moments, a picture of Olivia looking up at me. In the four months in between, we have learned that we have a mostly happy baby who eats great, sleeps pretty good and especially lately, loves to play. She interacts with us so much now – especially wanting us to chase her around the house and hide. We are, without a doubt so thankful for our wonderful blessing.

Sunday, November 18, 2007

Mid-November




I try to take pictures now and then when we are playing around the house - that is today collection. The noisemaker is from her birthday cake.


We have been pretty much doing life these last couple weeks. Olivia is walking very well. She will still sometimes land on her bottom, but if she chooses to, she can walk where ever and whenever she wants. She can turn and turn around while walking, and can go sideways to get through a tight space. She gives great hugs, even with a couple pats on the back. Kisses are still full tounge slobbery affairs.


She is "talking" nearly all the time. There are a few actual words, or word like utterances including mama, dada, buh (bye) and ktktkt (kitty cat). She says mmmmm to especially yummy food or when the coffee grinder is on. She will talk louder if you walk away, like down the hall or stairs.


She still eats great but has decided that canned peaches are poison.... and cottage cheese is evil. She will eat pretty much everything else, although has become a bit pickier on occasion. She LOVES spaghetti and mac-n-cheese. She eats yogurt and hot cereal (oatmeal, Malt-o-Meal or Cream of Wheat) every day for breakfast.

Monday, November 5, 2007

1st Birthday Party

1st Birthday Party

Click on the Butterflies and Fireworks cake for more pictures from our wonderful evening!

We had a Chinese themed party with lanterns, Chinese takeout and fireworks. All the grandparents, godparents and nearby family joined us for a good time. Olivia showed off her walking skills, was intrigued by the fireworks and enjoyed feeding Lee the cake (and eating some herself).

Thanks to all who joined us, and thanks to Elaine for making the terrific cake!

EDITED TO ADD: Pictures of the baptism are up!!!! Go to the post about the baptism at http://mgdtochina.blogspot.com/2007/10/olivias-baptism-aka-only-strong-survive.html

Thursday, November 1, 2007

I am thankful, and it is Thursday!

In looking at the Halloween pictures below, I started thinking about how thankful I am for our wonderful friends, Brent (giving Olivia the candy) and Elaine. (Okay, well technically, family because Michael and Elaine are cousins) They are such amazing, caring people who make a wonderful life for all of the seven children in their home. They also care deeply about all their friends and family, always willing to open their home and their lives for others. Just this week, they hosted their annual Halloween party, and Elaine was in charge of the school parties for three of their kids, and, she is going to make Olivia’s birthday cake!

I am also thankful for Grammy (note to self, get a picture of Olivia and Grammy at the party tomorrow) and Grampy. They have already been our fill-in babysitter numerous times, but that is just one of the many ways their kindness is part of our lives. Although we do not ask for much, I know that no matter what, if I did ask, Grammy would find a way to make it happen. At the party last night, Grammy hung out with Olivia so that Michael and I were able to get something to eat and when it was time for us to leave, Olivia gave her a huge kiss good-bye!

Wednesday, October 31, 2007

Happy 1st Halloween

EDITED TO ADD A FUNNY STORY: My step-mom, who we see often, checks the blog regularly too. She asked me last night "Where did you get that black cat? Is it yours?" At first, I thought, "well geez, we have had it for like four years... HELLO" but quickly remember that Kirbi hides whenever someone comes to our house. Seriously, in four years, she had never seen her because she hides so well! She thought we borrowed a black cat for the pictures!!!

My Halloween Jammies and my pumpkins!














Watch out Kirbi, I am going to get your tail!
















My first Halloween
"trick or treat"!








Posted by Picasa

Monday, October 29, 2007

Almost 1 - Qingliu SWI


Olivia’s birthday is on Friday. While Olivia thus far is not so much into it, I am looking forward to our little celebration. Mostly, though, I am looking forward to using it as a chance to help the babies that are still at Qingliu SWI.

When we traveled to China, we took along money from another family who also adopted from Qingliu SWI. They collected the money on their daughter’s first birthday, giving me the idea to do the same. We gave the money to our guide to give to the orphanage director. If we find another family adopting from Qingliu, we hope to do the same. If not, I will send it through a contact in Guangzhou who I have used to send packages of books, clothing and treats to the orphanage already.

If you would like to help, please use the link at the right. The money goes into our Paypal account under our business name, but I will then direct it into another account.

Birds of a Feather


Just couldn't resist putting one picture up here from our work Halloween Party. How cute is this????
Posted by Picasa

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

Walking???

Guess who is thinking a lot about walking? Yes, it true. We have been pulling (or pushing) up and standing without holding on for a few seconds or more for a while now, but Friday, Olivia actually took a couple steps! Over the weekend, we showed her how to walk behind her little car/push toy (thanks, Jessica!!!) and she also started doing that quite a bit – hopefully getting used to the “one foot in front of the other” thing.

Last night, even though short on napping, she stayed up later than normal and for about 15 minutes practiced walking. She would stand up, take a step or two, fall down and do it all over again. Once she got at least 5 steps in. We were so excited we were afraid to make a sound!

Tuesday, October 16, 2007

Mama and Daddy Time

First, a confession – prior to the baptism day, I had been feeling pretty self-righteous and successful about our attachment efforts. Things had been going very well and I was pretty proud of the fact that we were doing such a good job even with transitioning to child care in the short two months that we have been home.

Unfortunately, that confidence led to Michael and I allowing her to be passed around among the 46 people that were at our house on baptism day. And led to a week of problems for us and Olivia. The first thing we noticed was that she would not make eye contact with Michael. Then she started SCREAMING again when we would change her diaper. Then she started fighting the car seat again. More clingy, less affectionate. More distant. Crying when we dropped her off at child care.

So, back to square one for us – lots of Mama and Daddy time. Saturday, we did not leave the house, all three of us in our pajamas all day. Lots of activities to encourage eye contact. Lots of on the floor time.

Fortunately, it has paid off and we have made gains again. We are not back to where we were before the baptism, but we have made a lot of progress. And last night, she played a new game with me that just melted my heart. She would crawl across the floor as fast as she could wanting me to “chase” her. She would stop and with me right next to her would laugh so hard she would fall over. We crawled around the house like this until I would have to have her stop for fear of her wearing herself out. Once she caught her breath, she started right back up again! It was so wonderful.

Saturday, October 13, 2007

The latest pictures from Pam

Photobucket Album

Click on the picture to see lots more photos. I think you can order them too, if you would like a copy. This is my first try with Photobucket, so I hope it works!

Friday, October 12, 2007

How Cool is This Shirt???

Since I forgot the card with the baptism pictures at work, I figured I would at least provide something interesting to look at. So, first, check out this shirt!!! Here is the story: On Monday, my mother-in-law and I went shopping to the outlet mall in Warrenton. Our mission was to exchange some stuff for different sizes at the Carter's store. When we were finished, we decided to go to Dress Barn. Just inside the door, I see a shirt similar to this one, but I think it described a green tea. It was very cool, but certainly more than I would pay for basically a t-shirt. I looked around a bit then nearly gasped when I saw this shirt. Why, you ask? Look at the first line: Fujian Province! The last lines are pretty cool too. So, needless to say, it is now mine. Wore it to work today.



The other two are just cute pictures I found on the camera when I was getting the t-shirt pictures off.
















Check out the shoes Aunt Bobbie!

Posted by Picasa

Monday, October 8, 2007

Olivia's Baptism aka Only the Strong Survive


Baptism


Whew! We made it through mostly unscathed. Daddy seems to be doing pretty good after surviving near strangulation, my back is killing me and Olivia is still a little off - way too much activity/stimulation for her.

Pics to come, details here. It all started with a crazy week. The first part was spent celebrating my mom's birthday, which was fun but busy. I worked Wednesday, Thursday and Friday, and Michael was either out of town or frantically trying to get the gate at the storage units working on Wednesday and Thursday. Thursday night, we started working on stuff for the shower. Friday was super busy. I picked up Olivia from day care and we went on a marathon shopping trip to get all the stuff to finish the new bathroom. Mom went along (big thanks) and we got it done then went out to dinner.
Saturday was crazy. Mom came up and helped as we cleaned, organized and prepared for the party. After things were done enough that I could get the shopping done, I took off for that endeavor. Three or four stores later, I had everything on the list. Back home for more work - this time with help from Michele (yea!!!) . After we were too exhausted to do any more, we left to have dinner and hang out for a little bit at a friend's party.
Sunday - get up, feed baby, work, work, work getting ready. Shower, dress and leave for church. Aunt Bobbie took the first round of church wrestling, then passed off to me as we waiting for the big event. The baptism went fine - I wrestled Olivia while she grabbed Daddy's tie and tried to strangle him. It was quite amusing for everyone. She SERIOUSLY wanted to splash in that little pool of water, but I held tight and tried to distract her with the flowers on the alter. Thanks to Tim for taking pictures - I hope he has one of Olivia strangling Daddy!!! After the actual Baptism we went back to the pew for the third round, which lasted about 5 minutes before she started getting loud. I then took her out and played with her in the cry room. She would not let me put her down at first, as she was getting really tired, but after a while she played on the floor with no problem. Of course, it helped a bunch that Jordon came in and played with her!!!
She fell asleep within 3 minutes on the way home. I put her in her bed and she never made a sound. Somehow she managed to sleep for about 1.5 hours in the middle of all of the noise and chaos. We had 47 people here. We tried to keep it small by only inviting family. It was all family and Godparents. Michael and I ran around like crazy most of the time trying to keep things going smoothly.
Olivia woke up and ate, but was clearly overwhelmed by it all. There was too much going on and way too many people. She pretty much maintained her stoic little stare most of the day. After everyone left and Michael and I were cleaning up, she tried to climb in one of the roasters that was on the floor. I set her in the roaster and she played there for at least 10 minutes. It was too cute. After that, she played with the roaster racks for another 10 minutes. Today, she is certainly more clingy than normal, but enjoying her mama and daddy time.

Tuesday, October 2, 2007

Pictures from Pam

Pam has been in town to celebrate Mom's birthday and took a bunch of pictures (373 to be exact).


Soon to be Godparents and our very dear friends, Cindy and Shane.










Olivia is standing unsupported and very proud of herself. She has been practicing standing a lot for about a week now.












Mama and baby






Posted by Picasa

Sunday, September 23, 2007

Thankful #1

A friend I met through the November LID room on RQ posts "Thankful Thursday" each week on her blog, discussing things she is thankful for. I love the idea, and love reading her thoughts, so I wanted to copy. Knowing full well that I could never do anything at the same time each week, I figured I would just do it when the mood strikes me and time allows. So, here goes:

1. I am thankful for Amy, Candi and Monica, my LID groupmates. They are each amazing, wonderful women and devoted mothers. There love and support over the last two years kept me sane. Even though we are all busy with our families now, they are always in my thoughts and heart.
2. My clients and staff. We had an open house at work today, and it was wonderful to see everyone enjoying a beautiful day of fun and fellowship.
3. My nephew, Jordon. He is so sweet with Olivia, and she just adores him. When I turned to him in church this morning and asked him to take her, he did not hesitate. My wish for Olivia is that she is as kind, caring and compassionate teenager as he is.

Monday, September 17, 2007

Sami's Day to Babysit

A week or so ago we were outside working - Sami was helping out by taking care of Olivia!

Today's update: crawling continues to improve. She now has the ability to follow us around the house without difficulty! She still doesn't bother the cats much. They are too quick for her at this point.

She did great on our trip to Jeff City over the weekend, hanging out with cousin Jordon and his friend Cory at our hotel room while we were gone.

This is our "bad hair day" picture. That was after a nap! Still pretty cute though.

We had our first alone time at day care and it went fine. More to come this week with that.

Olivia received her Certificate of Citizenship on Friday. Our brief break from paperwork is now over for a time. With this in hand, it is back to work getting other official documents completed.

Posted by Picasa

Tuesday, September 11, 2007

A week of accomplishments


Since the last post, our little girl has made great strides! She now waves goodbye, crawls like a champ, greets us in the morning or after her nap standing in her crib and not only will put food in her mouth, but opened the puffs container to get them out! She has also chewed on a few rocks, but we aren't quite as proud of that accomplishment.


We had a typical prebaby weekend and Olivia hung with us like a champ. One of my favorite things has been our semi (no pun intended) routine of spending Friday evenings with the Witte's. So, that is where we started. Olivia enjoyed dinner and hanging out. Mama and Daddy enjoyed visiting with Brent and Elaine, Vaughn and Janelle and several of the kids (t00 numerous to mention!)
Saturday, we worked on the trailer project that Michael has started. I now know how to use an impact wrench, which is an accomplishment since before he started this, I did not even know what an imact wrech was. While we work, Olivia hung out on her totally cool blanket and played. Saturday night, we had a wonderful chili dinner with Aunt Bobbie (Cindy), Shane and Jeran. Olivia loves Aunt Bobbie, so it was great fun for her. Once again, Mama and Daddy very much enjoyed visiting with our dear friends.
Sunday, we gave church a shot, but Olivia feel asleep on the way there. Back home, back to the trailer. I really need a picture of me and the wrench. Aunt Marilu invited us to dinner on Sunday, so off we went for a fabulous meal. Olivia got lots of family bonding time with the boys, Uncle Lee and Aunt Marilu, who took her on her first four-wheeler ride. She also got to meet the sheep and see the mules again. Shoulda had the camera!
All that craziness, and then Mama went back to work for the first day on Monday and Olivia hung out and helped Daddy. Today, since Daddy had a Commission meeting, Grammy and Grampy were the official babysitters! All went very well, except that baby was pretty clinging with Mama around dinner time. I think she was tired. All the excitement of the weekend catching up with her.

Sunday, September 2, 2007

Another first: Boating

We went to Mark Twain Lake today for a trip out on the boat!

Olivia did great - she spent some time in the water, some on the raft and some in the boat and was awake the entire time.
She is not actually sitting on the ledge with nothing to protect her as the picture looks - there is actually a screen behind her!
Woo hoo! Olivia is driving already!





I have posted a bunch today, so be sure to scroll down and check everything out!

Posted by Picasa

More pictures

Go here for some fun pictures of our favorite little girl!

A Mule's Behind - and James!


Okay, so as I was trapsing through my photos, I could not resist a seperate post for this one. It so speaks for itself! (The rest of the story - the one on the mule is James, our nephew. They camped this weekend at the state park and we stopped by to visit Friday night. )

Our First Overnight Trip

Michael had a Commission meeting in Jeff City on Thursday, so we went down on Wednesday night. We went out to dinner with some of the people from the commission and also got to visit with Steve and Celia. We spent 3 hours at the restaurant and Olivia was awesome. She ate visited and played great! I wanted to take lots more pictures, but these are all I ended up with. The one from the back of my car is Olivia's luggage, the one in the side door is mine and Michael's luggage! This girl does not travel light!